Dress code for weddings and ceremonies – how to choose the right style for the big day

Are you planning to attend a wedding or ceremony and are unsure about the dress code?

Here you will find a complete guide to how to dress properly – from a tailcoat to a blazer – and how to create a style that is both elegant and respectful for the big day with the right accessories and jewelry.

Bride with wedding bouquet and wedding ring. Groom with wedding ring.

Quick tips for interpreting the dress code at weddings and receptions

  • Read the invitation carefully – the dress code is often stated or can be inferred from the location and time.
  • Avoid all white – it is the bride's color and should be left to her.
  • Match the theme – vintage, bohemian or classic influences the style choice.
  • Choose materials according to the season – lighter fabrics in summer, heavier in winter.
  • Accessories make the whole – choose jewelry that complements, not takes over.
  • Ask the toastmaster if you are unsure – it is always better to double check.

Why is the dress code so important?

The dress code is the bride and groom's way of setting the tone for the wedding. It creates a harmonious visual whole, helps guests feel confident in their choices, and helps the photographs from the day look stylish and timeless. It is also a way of showing respect for both tradition and the wishes of the host couple.

The most common dress codes for weddings in Sweden

1. Tailcoat / formal suit

  • For men: Tailcoat with white vest, white bow tie and patent leather shoes.
  • For women: Full-length evening dress in exclusive fabric, preferably with elegant jewelry.
  • Suitable for: Very formal evening weddings and weddings at a castle or manor.

2. Tuxedo

  • For men: Black or midnight blue tuxedo, black bow tie and white shirt.
  • For women: Long or short evening dress, preferably in luxurious materials such as silk or velvet.
  • Suitable for: Evening weddings with an elegant but slightly less strict feel than a tailcoat.

3. Dark suit

  • For men: Dark blue or dark gray suit, white shirt and tie/bow tie.
  • For women: Dress, skirt or suit in festive fabric, preferably knee-length or longer.
  • Suitable for: Semi-formal weddings and church ceremonies.

4. Blazer

  • For men: Suit in any color, light shirt and tie (can be opted out depending on style).
  • For women: Festive dress, pantsuit or skirt and top.
  • Suitable for: Less formal weddings, often during the day or outdoors.

Dress code for church and civil weddings

  • Church wedding: Traditionally more formal, especially on holidays and in larger churches. All white is avoided by guests as it is the bride's color. Black is fine but preferably with colored accessories.
  • Civil wedding: Often more relaxed in attire, but is governed by location and theme. In a city hall setting, a dark suit or blazer works great, while a beach wedding may allow lighter fabrics and brighter colors.

How to interpret the dress code in the invitation

If the dress code is not stated, you can interpret it by looking at:

  • Time: Evening → more formal, daytime → brighter and lighter.
  • Location: Castle settings often require a tailcoat or tuxedo, while a garden ceremony can be more casual.
  • Theme: Vintage, bohemian or romantic – each theme provides clues to clothing choices.

If you're unsure, ask the bride and groom or the toastmaster – they appreciate that you want to dress appropriately.

Jewelry – the detail that completes the style

Regardless of the dress code, jewelry is key to creating a personal and thoughtful look:

  • For the bride: The wedding ring is the main character – choose a piece of jewelry that harmonizes with the style and material of the dress. Discover our range of wedding rings in gold and platinum that combine Swedish craftsmanship tradition with timeless design.
  • For the guest: Discreet but well-chosen jewelry that matches the outfit gives an elegant impression without stealing the attention. Find inspiration among our necklaces and earrings for both everyday and festive occasions.

Summary

The right dress code for a wedding is more than a formality – it is part of the overall experience. By following it, you show respect for the bride and groom, the tradition and the celebration itself. Whether you wear a tailcoat, a dark suit or a blazer – always complete your look with a smile and perhaps a piece of jewelry that means a little something extra.

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